By the numbers
91.8% of our days had a text.
Across 782 calendar days, we texted on 718 of them across iMessage and WhatsApp. The longest silence was not distance; it was Vipassana.
Messages by month
The shape of us
It starts small, catches fire in 2024, and turns into a steady daily language.
Busiest chapter
July 2024 1,462 messages · 31 active daysMessage breakdown
Between us
When we text
The daily rhythm
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All time
19,961
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What we say
Terms of Endearment
“cutie” appears
1,026 times, across 1,007 messages.Top emoji
The reaction shelf
First mentions
When words entered the chat
First relationship label
Aug 1, 2024 Girlfriend enters the chat.Topic mix
What the messages are about
Conversation eras
The chapters
Private snippets